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ONE STEP AT A TIME

ONE STEP AT A TIME

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ORIGINALLY POSTED IN 2012 on focusonsimple.co I went running this morning - more of a jog, really. + though I took a few small breaks to walk, I can confidently say that I jogged this morning. Not for a long period of time...but I jogged. I jogged further this morning than I did yesterday morning. When I first started, I walked. It's all because of the dog, really. Thank goodness for his furry face + the fact that he needs to go outside to use the facilities. Last summer we got a large deposit of top soil in our driveway in order to do a bit of foundation work, + to even out the backyard. So when the dirt was down in the backyard, + the grass was growing, we needed to…
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INSTRUCTIONS ON HOW TO DO WHAT YOU LOVE

INSTRUCTIONS ON HOW TO DO WHAT YOU LOVE

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ORIGINALLY POSTED IN 2012 ON focusonsimple.co RE: previous post. Now, having said that, please remember + refer to this... Crazy Talk: The Do-What-You-Love Guide ‘Everything you can imagine is real.’ ~Pablo Picasso Post written by Leo Babauta at Zen Habits When I wrote the first words of this blog, more than five years ago, I had no idea those few keystrokes would change my life. I thought I was doing nothing more than reflecting on the changes that had been happening in my life, sharing a bit about what I learned with a handful of friends. I thought those tinkling of computer keys would fade into the void, as most of my thoughts had before that. I didn’t imagine that a year later, I would have 26,000 people reading my blog…
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THE MISCONCEPTIONS OF DOING WHAT YOU LOVE

THE MISCONCEPTIONS OF DOING WHAT YOU LOVE

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ORIGINALLY POSTED IN 2012 ON focusonsimple.co When I was growing up one of the things I was told, + which has stayed with me, is to 'do what you love, + the money will follow'. Not that I'm hoping to make loads of cash, rather, I'd like to support myself + family by doing something that is really fulfilling + makes the days sparkle. Sounds great, in theory. + that's what I've focused on - doing the things that I love, think that I love, searching for what I love...thinking that if I loved it, it would be easy. But nothing worth doing is easy (see, another quote...from who? I don't remember. I govern my life by quotes. Maybe not the best practice...). The 'do' part of 'do what you love...'…
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THE INVITATION BY ORIAH MOUNTAIN DREAMER

THE INVITATION BY ORIAH MOUNTAIN DREAMER

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The first time I read this it sank into my being, + when things start to go south it always comes back up to the surface - particularly the line about spending a night with grief + despair, + still being able to get up in the morning + feed the children. It's been a great reminder to be real, authentic, not to deny ones feelings, but not to let them keep you down. It doesn't interest me what you do for a living I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you are I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love for your dreams for the adventure…
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IF I HAD MY CHILD TO RAISE OVER AGAIN

IF I HAD MY CHILD TO RAISE OVER AGAIN

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If I had my child to raise over again ~ Diane Loomans If I had my child to raise all over again, I'd build self-esteem first, + the house laterI'd finger paint more, + point the finger lessI would do less correcting + more connectingI'd take my eyes off my watch + watch with my eyesI'd take more hikes + fly more kitesI'd stop playing serious, + seriously playI would run through fields + gaze more at starsI'd do more hugging + less tuggingI'd see the oak tree in the acorn more oftenI'd be firm less often + affirm much moreI'd model less about the love of power+ more about the power of love.
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IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER AGAIN

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER AGAIN

family, grow heal love, live with intention, live your purpose
By Erma Bombeck, 'If I had my life to live over again'... "I would have talked less and listened more. I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was  stained and the sofa faded. I would have eaten the popcorn in the good living room and worried  much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the  fireplace. I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about  his youth. I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer  day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed. I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it  melted in storage. I would have sat on the lawn with my…
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WHY CREATING TRADITIONS FOR YOUR FAMILY IS IMPORTANT

WHY CREATING TRADITIONS FOR YOUR FAMILY IS IMPORTANT

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Traditions are the stories from our family that are passed from one generation to the next. They are our history and provide the knowledge of who we are, where we come from, and the values we hold. This is how you experience your family time together + how you relate to others, + you can either create them with intention, or they'll be formed by default. It helps to define your family's identity + culture, + is a way of demonstrating how each of us belong. Belonging to a community, or a group with a defined identity, is crucial to our experience as human beings. We thrive when we feel that we belong, that we're part of a bigger story. Creating + establishing traditions help provide the definition of who…
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AN INTENTIONAL CHRISTMAS

AN INTENTIONAL CHRISTMAS

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Are you already all wrapped up in the Christmas season? Who's already stressed feeling the stress? I've been working on making our Christmas as stress-less as possible over the past few years. + where I've found our stress really originates from is expectation + consumerism. Expectation of what the season should be, + the draw to buy #allthethings for our home, for others, for ourselves... Even as we've tried to simplify how we do Christmas, the draw is still there – who doesn't get sucked in by the sparkle + warmth + texture of all the Christmas things in all the stores + advertisements?? - but so is the realization that it's all there every single year. It doesn't end or go away. + I don't feel better with more…
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